tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-39329740002535227632024-03-06T00:26:34.099-05:004 Chambers of My HeartKimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.comBlogger56125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-71920691866334323162009-08-13T14:50:00.002-04:002009-08-13T15:07:20.368-04:00Homeschool changes in 2009Our plan this year has drastically changed as the kids are getting older and more is expected of them and me. I went to Expo with Abbey and our plan this year is to school together Tuesdays and Thursdays while maintaining the same rough schedules on Monday, Wednesday and Friday from the comfort of our own homes. My kids are so excited that they wish to begin school tomorrow but alas, the teachers are not quite ready.<br /><br />Curriculum choices are as follows:<br /><br />Denali: Grade 6<br />History Odyssey Level 2 Middle Ages<br />Easy Grammmar- Daily Grams Grade 7<br />Daily Math Grade 7<br />Algebra 1<br />Lightning Literature 7<br />Greek<br />Latin (4th year of this)<br />Critical thinking Book 1, and a few extra logic books for fun<br />World Geography coloring book<br />Meet the Masters for Art, and Calvert Dvds<br />So You Really Want to Learn about Science <br />Thames and Kosmos Science kit<br />Living Memory Book<br />Spelling Workout G<br />Famous Men of the Middle Ages<br /><br />Bryn: Grade 3<br />Spelling workout D<br />Easy Grammmar 3/4<br />Little House on the Praire study guide (books will change throughout the year)<br />Singapore 3A and 3B<br />Horizon book 3<br />Latin<br />Logic- Primarily Logic and Brain Benders<br />Science- same as Denali<br />Story of the World Book 2<br />Living Memory Book<br />Geography coloring book<br />Writing with Ease Book 2<br /><br />Keelin: Grade 1<br /><br />Explode the Code<br />Writing with ease book 1<br />Singapore 2A and 2B<br />Horizons Book 1<br />Geography coloring book<br />Living Memory book<br />Story of the World book 2<br />Logic games<br />Science - same as others but mostly drawing what she observes<br />Listening/ particiapting in Literature discussions after hearing the book read aloud<br /><br /><br />We are even packing lunches to be eaten at the dining table, using a bell to change classes but I have drawn the line at agreeing to bathroom passes! Looking forward to our first day Sept. 8th. <br /><br />Hoping to keep the blog up better during the school year.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-76863757266730581852009-05-12T09:41:00.002-04:002009-05-12T09:52:17.181-04:00Discussions on a soccer fieldYesterday another soccer mom and I were having a discussion about what would prevent young girls from getting pregnant and I would like to offer an internship to motherhood for those considering actions that might indeed place them in this very wonderful but often trying job.<br /><br />We decided that you should not engage in sexual behavior if:<br />1. You never wish to catch poop in your hands<br />2. You can't type with one hand while managing three other things with the "free" hand.<br />3. You are not ok with projectile vomit down your shirt.<br />4. You are unwilling to pack enough food for a small army just to leave the house for an hour.<br />5. You are not committed to following through on EVERY promise/threat. Even if it means missing a fun outing or making a special treat at 2AM.<br />6. Your natural language does not flow into sentences that begin with "I" think it would be wise if....<br />7. Your idea of decorating the house involves a lot of colorful plastic toys and nothing that can be bought at Michael's in the craft area.<br />8. You do not want to teach the art of negotiation by explaining that a scrap of paper is not an enticing trade for a favorite toy.<br />9. You think you "deserve" uninterrrupted sleep.<br />10. You are not thrilled with handmade Mother's day cards that are full of treasured stickers that signify love.<br /><br />I am not sure too many pre teens would take me up on my offer, and mind you I would not trade my job for anything... BUT it is a BIG job and I do wish people would think in terms of 18-20 years and not just one moment.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-71741247622415829432009-02-25T15:29:00.002-05:002009-02-25T15:41:59.726-05:00FebruaryWhy is it at this time of year I am always longing for new curriculum and start thinking about next year? Is it that I don't wish to finish what we have started? Are we bored with winter and the indoor captivity? I am trying to use this time to include some pre-Spring activities like starting seedlings for our garden, ordering chickens in the next week or so I hope, and ordering a few things to inspire me to finish this year's stuff in preparation for next school year. <br /><br />Denali has finished Singapore 5a and b. She finished Wordly Wise Grade 5. She is half way through History Odyssey Ancients Level 2. She takes the Latin 1 Exam at the beginning of March. We are awaiting test scores from the DUKE TIP Explore test. And this week she is currently taking the ITBS. So I have high hopes that around April I will have found confidence that once again our school year has been successful, we will finish all the necessary work and even some unplanned stuff.<br /><br />Bryn has finished her Wordly Wise Grade 2 and is well on her way to finishing both her math books early. This is great because her reading has improved so much that we can tackle a few harder things this summer without the struggle. Her spelling is her weak suit too ( how is that possible considering how many different programs I have used for the two older ones and the fact that we have phonics daily?????) but I have always considered spelling a forgivable weakness in light of spell check. <br /><br />Keelin is doing much better, especially with her sight words. She completed her 1a math in Singapore this week. She is not reading comfortably yet, but I imagine it will all fall into place by the summer. I am considering more audio books with the hardback to follow along with. <br /><br />Considering all the sickness and fevers this week, we are hanging in there, but I am ready for warm weather and a chance to move outdoors and sit on the porch to do school. It would make the little guy much happier to roam while we learn.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-84234239288729572542009-01-29T05:53:00.002-05:002009-01-29T06:20:10.468-05:00New YearI promised myself I would keep this blog up about school. It became about very little school. So I will try again.<br /> <br />Denali just took the Duke Explore test on Sat. She seemed to think it was hard. She took it with a few friends and that was the consensus. It is an 8th grade test after all. She has almost completed her 5b Singapore which means it is time to order another book. She is still enjoying history with the new program and seems to have a better grasp on the Ancient World than I do. Her Latin is improving daily and she will take the Latin 1 Exam in March. She is never tested at home so while it seems like a lot of testing- it is not. She has a great attitude about testing- realizing it is just for the sake of being able to test your memory. I am proud of her work ethic. She is also getting the opportunity to play on a select travel team this spring. She is beyond excited and once I figure out what to do with four kids on the soccer field three days a week, I will be set. Actually I am glad, it forces us to do PE.<br /><br />Bryn is still doing great in Math. She just gets it, like my sister. She is also beginning to find joy in helping Keely. Her reading has improved so much that she enjoys reading aloud to me. She never would do this when she stumbled on her words. her handwriting is also improving. Now that she is aware of her hypoglycemia, she is starting to take better care of it. We are still struggling with her protein. She needs more than just the average bear. Her Latin is slow in coming. <br /><br />Keelin would like a teacher by her side all day. Well than - who would not? She is learning the art of moving on and coming to back to problems when I can help her. She is going to spend next week working on her numbers. She can add and subtract but can not write them correctly. I am aware this is developmental but still- we must work on it. I would like her to begin addition wrap ups as well. Her handwriting is improving. She too loves logic problems of all kinds. She is confident when reading her sight words or Bob books. Otherwise she seems to forget she has a two years o phonics and does not want to attempt to sound things out. She also loves to color ( especially with markers that bleed on to everything :)).<br /><br />Keaton just turned two and is putting words together so that we may understand him. Now that we understand him, he is rightfully angry when we do not cooperate. Mainly our days go like this- <br />Keaton- OOOT IDE<br />Mom- You would like to go outside?<br />K- nods solemnly<br />M-It is 22 degrees- let's wait until this afternoon<br />K- OOT IDE!!!! repeat 25 times, goes gets hat, shoes, gloves<br />M- I have not had tea yet.<br />K- Cries until 11 when it is warm enough to go outside.<br /><br />My days are getting more scheduled and we tend to stay on track when this happens. I order the chickens in Feb. We are going to need to build this coop here soon. Looking for free wood but it may just have to be purchased. I am running/walking with Jen and demonstrating my belief that you should keep healthy through physical exercise (which has not been my top priority lately). I have been reminded COUNTLESS times in the last two weeks how great the price of health is and how we all become complacent about it until it is compromised. I resolve to change that this year. I am knitting and taking a little time for myself this year so I do not lose myself in the kids. We are going to travel a little less and enjoy being at home for more than just a to-do list. I am looking forward to spring, a garden, my chickens, and a little bit of country life here in the middle of the city.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-74646696511085575992008-11-13T23:15:00.005-05:002008-11-19T18:15:37.596-05:00Gliders or did I mean Rodents?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgg0MXi0Fimp8OKqdXuj-cJkN-pllUjQgf-N6UtzLCNxMY-XwXFQbH6cQlpTWK5jI2CVji6hn1a5CNdQDfxMBc2KjIqu2YF8kgaVr-koZDdkDnJl25JFq_QQzZKJQ-x58axiP8LMFfIkiXH/s1600-h/100px-Sugarglider_hp.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 100px; height: 208px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgg0MXi0Fimp8OKqdXuj-cJkN-pllUjQgf-N6UtzLCNxMY-XwXFQbH6cQlpTWK5jI2CVji6hn1a5CNdQDfxMBc2KjIqu2YF8kgaVr-koZDdkDnJl25JFq_QQzZKJQ-x58axiP8LMFfIkiXH/s320/100px-Sugarglider_hp.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5268370289487775858" /></a><br />My sister is selling her spices at two trade shows this weekend and so maybe I am a little overworked and stressed out. But as Denali and I entered the row where we would be set up for the next three days, I noticed a man speaking to someone (thing). I thought he had on a bluetooth. Then looked more closely and realized it was a pet. I assumed it was a baby ferret and found it incredibly odd that you would choose to set up for a trade show while entertaining a pet. I then supposed that he might be from out of town (hoped was probably more like it) and he could not leave this rodent like animal in a hotel room. He is setting up and as we are walking through back and forth unloading, I admittedly was looking a little uncomfortable as his friend ran up and over his head but did not appear to be attached to anything. I call Michael and ask what he thinks of my first impression of this Home Show and the man with a ferret. He is not as humored as I am so I continue to move things around. After our third trip, the man decides my strange and fearful looks might be indicative of my feeling toward rodents (hate would be a very mild word) and tells the little creature to jump in his bag. I continue watching with fascination as he sets up various cages and has jars of "food" set out for sale. I now move on to the picture in my head--Ravi (brother in law and Chief Indian officer of this crazy clan) doing a cooking demo of which they have four this weekend and Michael manning the booth (all that is funny enough) and in comes the rodent creature to help stir the pot both figuratively and literally. I am imagining this GLIDER (more of the display has been put up to clearly identify said rodent) swooping in to taste a little of my sister's Indian cooking. I picture the people running away swearing never to try ethnic food again and I am cursing this little guy for ruining my retirement plan (did I mention not a lot of sleep occurred this week so my dreaming is done wide awake). Well now I am perfectly petrified with the idea of being a few booths down from this crazy scenario all weekend. I call a friend to lament about our luck in having animals and their gear for sale so near to our food and does she respond with sympathy--oh no she owned one of these rodents and named it Phoebe. So as I was trying to get excited about helping with this show, I have used all of my brain power to wonder why anyone would want to sell gliders and the very cute little homemade pouches to carry them everywhere you go. For a reality check, I would like to know how many people go to a home show and buy a glider or his paraphernalia, how does one sign up for a booth like this and better yet, in the state of the economy--will I someday be resigned to selling rodents at a home show to cover college expenses of four kids? I am deeply disturbed by this and after reading <a href="http://www.sugargliderconnection.com">www.sugargliderconnection.com </a>( a must read if you want one) I am thinking at $175 each- this man is making a killing while I tagged 700 Indian Spices this week. <br /><br />Lastly I would like to note this website recommends buying two unless you have plenty of time to devote to them- like the man two booths over.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-62236330999437313632008-11-10T19:41:00.006-05:002008-11-10T20:21:44.152-05:00House callsIt was pointed out to me this weekend that I might have it good. I am hopeful it is good karma that is making my life a little easier. Michael and I try to teach the kids that good begets good. This weekend began with stomach sickness from my little guy on Friday leading me to believe we might have a couple of cases of Strep. After canceling a bday party, upsetting the entire emotional balance of the kids and cleaning up the car seat, we determined a quick trip to the pediatrician's office was in the plan for Saturday morning.<br /><br />Off we go-all 6 of us (including my doctor-phobic husband) to the pediatrician. An hour later, we have no conclusive info other than Michael's assurance we have now picked up something just by entering and lamenting why no one makes house calls.<br /><br />We are lucky enough to have a hair stylist who comes to us. She lived with us for a while (my very best hair days) but has moved on only to repay us with her kindness by not making me truck 6 people to the Aveda salon. so yes, i am grateful.<br /><br />But to continue with house calls, Sunday morning found us watching soccer and before the game had begun, Keaton stepped in a hole up to his thigh. He refused to stand on his own. We spent an hour deliberating our options. After returning to the house, I called our <a href="www.drclaire.com">chiropractors</a> and Dr. Kristin said she was on her way. After an adjustment, she was convinced he was fine but leery of the pain that was initial. She left after a bowl of soup and good conversation. we agreed to come by the office on Monday to be rechecked. By the way, she suggested apple cider vinegar for killing strep. Happy to imbibe with gargling in hopes that if we did not have it- we could avoid it. We will be regularly gargling this winter.<br /><br />An hour later my second house call for the weekend arrived with camera slung over his shoulder. I am also lucky enough to know a photographer who will come to us and if you have ever taken kids to a photo session -wow- you know how truly blessed I am. The kids don't get all out of whack trying to leave the house in perfect condition. I just get one ready at a time and then send them to sit quietly and bribe them with TV. <a href="http://mattccurtis.googlepages.com/home">Matt</a> was even gracious enough to jump in the car and do some outdoor shots. Keaton even began walking again once we were outside. <br /><br />So over all our weekend was far more chaotic then planned, but I feel incredibly fortunate to have lived here long enough to have established friendships and relationships with people who are willing to put themselves out a little. Another up side is that my children see that it is no more than we would do for this great people we chose to have in our lives. But I continue to be thankful for all the wonderful people who make up my village.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-79539608957459807632008-11-07T10:13:00.003-05:002008-11-07T21:12:38.360-05:00Sports lessons<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhP1pGc5xxvLlR7szmT-Ghth-hinHdxmqU6PNl9AYlEyYW9omQWwSL_k58jwj_96E4OrhP4TqPWKwyNJMBnb7U61Gf8ABFTtElV0Pf9N9wfBU5KMNV0FISbKqH8lZZKQ9ZFFoRMq_ON7mxl/s1600-h/DSC00841.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhP1pGc5xxvLlR7szmT-Ghth-hinHdxmqU6PNl9AYlEyYW9omQWwSL_k58jwj_96E4OrhP4TqPWKwyNJMBnb7U61Gf8ABFTtElV0Pf9N9wfBU5KMNV0FISbKqH8lZZKQ9ZFFoRMq_ON7mxl/s320/DSC00841.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5265936624135729346" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRtbmAnqDshJnjO3PMJlE5gOttbRyt5ipNvMrsZDXdziArfY0IgWZ5gR3C5fH9L2uyjUqqvX7JDGzcNWOMrvayESfcihjyAieSXfOWP4evGrmQhGzTIqW-xmZ6kQbxjQZSu8b_WxAu9o80/s1600-h/DSC00847.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRtbmAnqDshJnjO3PMJlE5gOttbRyt5ipNvMrsZDXdziArfY0IgWZ5gR3C5fH9L2uyjUqqvX7JDGzcNWOMrvayESfcihjyAieSXfOWP4evGrmQhGzTIqW-xmZ6kQbxjQZSu8b_WxAu9o80/s320/DSC00847.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5265936620200592082" /></a><br />While we homeschool and encourage cooperative behavior, we are big fans of soccer. Denali chose to move to a more competitive league this year and she has a fantastic coach. They finished their season undefeated last night, which is amazing and may never happen again in her lifetime, but I needed to point out what else we learned this season.<br /><br />1. The girls had 192 shots on goal before last night's game. WOW! Imagine the odds lesson here. They scored 53. Lots of math opportunities here.<br /><br />2. The total number of assists was 15- a lesson in how important a team player is for success.<br /><br />3. 38 corner kicks were taken, which means a better chance at a successful goal. Another great odds figure.<br /><br />4. Each player contributed to the team and each player had on and off games making it truly a team success.<br /><br />We have sacrificed a lot as a family for soccer this season and it was a joy to realize last night, that in supporting Denali's passion, we have all learned something. I am excited for the next few tournaments and the indoor season. But mostly, I am excited to see my children learn from our outside activities, and hopefully satisify that endless question as to whether or not we are socialized and able to play well with others.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-15487521315058174872008-11-03T19:28:00.000-05:002008-11-03T19:29:11.788-05:00Holiday Give ProjectWho: The People of Paraguay<br /><br />What: We are the Pray family and have a cousin in the Peace Corps. She is living in Asuncion and expressed the need for better dental care in her region. For our holiday “GIVE” we decided to collect toothbrushes and toothpaste for adults and children to send to those families in need. <br /><br />Where: We will collect these at our house (2407 Stonington Road, Atlanta, GA 30338), at LEAD (our home school group on Thursdays), and anytime you all see us.<br /><br />When: We will collect these until December 1st. We plan to add to these packages using our kids “GIVE” money that they have saved this year. <br /><br />Why: “Share the wealth” - Michael<br /> “To teach a lesson” - Kim<br /> “For the gift of giving” - Denali<br /> “They’re in need” - Bryn<br /> “Out of Love” - Keelin<br /> “Wah wuv” - Keaton<br /><br /><br /><br />Please feel free to forward and pass on!!Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-76723878355727807252008-11-02T22:10:00.002-05:002008-11-02T22:22:49.473-05:00Where do the hours go??Can it be November already? I feel as though my amazing resolve to be diligent in our school hours has already gone by the wayside and told my oldest today that she would be doing math before they opened Christmas presents if we did not buckle down. Last week we had a great visit with Grandma but got very little done. Well, we did make homemade cheese and went to see a play at the Alliance (those count right??). This week between voting, which could take many hours and might provide an education in and of itself, and helping my sister get ready for the big show in two weekends (www.moderndaymasala.com) we must get some book work done. I am doing a little reading on Charlotte Mason and how to combine her thoughts in my classical approach. Everyone I have ever met that states that they follow the Charlotte Mason approach appeals to me from the calm demeanor they have with their children. Spent today outside holding Denali and her friend captive on the see saw while I read to them the rules for a happy family life. We discussed the art of being respectful to all family members, the art of slaying your own dragons (making a plan to work on your not so perfect charactersitics), and the need to happily agree to disagree ( an art form I have a feeling will come in handy in most adult lives here in a few days once this election is over). All of this was a good reminder that we must continue to work on our relationships forever. I mentioned tonight to the girls that if we treasure our family, we must work out our issues and spend more time enjoying what each family member brings to the collective table. Hope this helps start the week off right. It looks to be a doozy of a week with all the running around and soccer tournaments and election stuff. I will be eating a lot of ice cream this week to cope with my non-stop action--- feel free to drop in for some anytime.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-82165985961036694842008-10-22T22:06:00.003-04:002008-10-22T22:21:21.879-04:00Where do socks goI have always joked with the kids that the washing machine must eat their socks, but until tonight it was more of tooth fairy kind of belief. Then I witnessed this occurrence with my own two eyes. Well, not the actual eating but of the hiding. I found seven single socks dating back to when Keaton had teeny tiny feet and a few other unmentionables in the rubber seal of the washer. It was so disturbing that like all other gross things in life, I asked for confirmation. "Look how scary this is," I squeal not only to my husband but with my mother-in-law present. "Can you believe the washing machine ate these and look how long they must have been in here." "How could I not have noticed?" I pride myself on the ability to do amazing laundry, never letting it pile up and getting set in stains out with the grace of a dancer. But somehow I never noticed the dark colors lurking in the rubber seal surrounding the front loader washer. I was so appalled that I actually just threw them in and washed them again (as if they had not suffered this fate enough) but this time they actually got a little cleaner. Being that these items have been wet for several months, I feel I must throw them out yet, I felt it wrong to throw out such foul smelling dirty items in the trash ( ironic huh?). They will find their way to the trash in the morning and my washer will probably smell a lot less wet dog like after this. I wonder if in the book printed in many languages that came with the washer it mentioned this possibility. This might be my punishment that I cheated and watched the short DVD version of how to run the washer. So a warning to all who have not checked their front loader's rubber seal, do you have anything missing from your laundry pile?Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-3392908683266339042008-10-15T13:04:00.003-04:002008-10-15T13:33:16.429-04:00Emotions and ExpectationsWhen I signed on for this job as a mother, I admit I envisioned a little Leave It To Beaver mixed with the Brady Bunch and seasoned with the Cosby Show. In hind sight, we do use a lot of the ironic comedy found in the Bill Cosby's work so maybe I was not completely off the mark. My problem this week is emotions and expectations. <br /><br />By emotions, I mean mine and everyone's in the house. The baby is teething (enough said) and he is a nursing toddler (picture yoga and nursing- simultaneously- and this is my life). The oldest of my girls seems to be in a good place but only after a 6 month period of rolling eyes and establishing what "ACTUALLY" defines sassy behavior. The middle girl is always a tight rope walk when it comes to emotions. We have tried dietary changes, books until Amazon is sending me pleas to combine all my knowledge and write one of my own, and plain old fashion reward and punishment to no avail. Each day it is like juggling eggs, today I awoke to crying about school work and we had not even discussed expectations of the day yet. And this brings me to the youngest girl. She has watched my middle child and apparently taken good notes because what can a parent do when a child refuses to make their fingers move on a piano. At some point yesterday, I was reminded of my Love and Logic parenting- you can make them got into their room but not make them sleep. This is great advice except I have strong willed children and just how do you make them stay in the room without physical touch. I am a big fan of showing my kids the respect that I expect to receive. I feel modeling is far more important than words, but then which adult around them is modeling throwing themselves on the floor and yelling "I amn't going to piano and you can't make me play"? By the time Michael arrived home, I was actually holding the wine and the glass and just waiting for the door to crack. We have an unwritten rule that if you are the only one around with these small people, you must not be in a place where you have to call 911 for a minor emergency because YOU have been drinking. Seems logical until you have been managing emotions of 6 people for several months and feel like the egg you were juggling this morning cracking. I did drink a glass of wine and then I did proceed to sit in my bed and read until everyone else went to bed. Had a nice conversation with my husband about how he is amazed that I can do this each day (me too actually).<br />But then this is the job of motherhood. Makes me wonder why they have not done a series on life like this, no need to swap wives or eat gross things, just daily life is amusing enough.<br /><br />On to expectations of which it has been said mine are a bit out of whack. I realized last night and then again this morning that my expectations for myself are very high- isn't that what allows for success? But I pass that on without thought to all those around me, and it caused me to wonder if we are not all hard wired for such perfectionism. Yes, I do realize that my be a bit late in coming as I am 37 and just now realizing that not everyone like things to be just so. What I am trying to wrestle with is when can I let go of my expectations and let the kids have their own personalities? I firmly believe that if you set the bar high, anyone can reach and meet it. But is this real? I am just working through what my expectations for each child are and how to reflect each one's personal preferences without slacking off on the younger ones as I get older. How hard do I push without pushing them over the edge? I will continue to ponder this thought since it involves way more than just my responsibility as their teacher but as their parent. <br /><br />So now I am on the tight rope balancing eggs (emotions) and jumping rope (expectations). Anyone want to join me--at the very least we can scramble them for breakfast?Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-71963515472313671672008-09-30T23:54:00.003-04:002008-10-01T07:51:18.217-04:00Wordless Wednesday<a href="http://s249.photobucket.com/albums/gg207/kimpray/?action=view¤t=pirate_jack_rackham.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i249.photobucket.com/albums/gg207/kimpray/pirate_jack_rackham.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a><br /><br />Well, not completely without words...<br /><br />Just giggling over the pirates who stopped to have a feast to celebrate their religion today--seems a little ironic being that they ARE pirates and trying to steal weapons and all but at least I imagine them in cute little outfits.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-16200958206329594332008-09-22T14:47:00.005-04:002008-09-22T15:05:25.773-04:00New puppy<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGfRNQG3OWdQ2W3Ukau5sccz_1pl8ugVNalp_UXoBn8O-epjPM6Ufc4ta5UkH-KRqYDU99izgF72uRsePn-zmIUslWkNzXHKVViSE9ClNlznK9tD1nDkyVGlQ2I5yjzBicjy0e7VZp7eog/s1600-h/Merle-Tan-Girl-0674.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGfRNQG3OWdQ2W3Ukau5sccz_1pl8ugVNalp_UXoBn8O-epjPM6Ufc4ta5UkH-KRqYDU99izgF72uRsePn-zmIUslWkNzXHKVViSE9ClNlznK9tD1nDkyVGlQ2I5yjzBicjy0e7VZp7eog/s320/Merle-Tan-Girl-0674.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5248921229223558626" /></a><br />My parents are getting a new puppy--don't get too excited, I do not wish for another thing to toilet train. But this dog will live only a mere 20 minutes from us and we have a family foster program that allows us to borrow dogs, loan dogs, exchange dogs within a three family co-op. <br /><br />She is too cute and her name is Mckinley. We have been discussing the similarities in having a dog and baby and here is the list:<br />1. will have to wait patiently for the dog to arrive (must be 6-8 weeks old)<br />2. will need special bedding<br />3. will need special food<br />4. will keep you up ALL night<br />5. will require training classes or at least a book or two<br />6. will include many dtrs visit to ensure growing properly, shots, etc.<br />7. will cause you to rethink your sanity<br />8. will keep you close to home as that is the easiest place to keep all the STUFF<br />9. will remind you that consistency is more important than anything (no softies here)<br />10. will require toilet training and for this kind it's more like an outhouse<br />11. will need new toys<br />12. will involve many "OOHS and AHHHS!!"<br />13.will bring endless amounts of love!!!Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-87754925392554234512008-09-18T13:31:00.002-04:002008-09-18T14:01:12.905-04:00Why homeschool?This is the time of year I meet many people who ask me why do I do this crazy thing, keeping my kids with me all day and never having any time to myself. <br /><br />The answer is it is a lifestyle and I am thankful to another homeschool mom who I met at our chiropractor's office who reminded me of this fact. It is a decision we made when Denali was little and it just grew into homeschooling. Michael and I decided to co-sleep with the kids (many countries do not consider this a choice, but a necessity), nurse on demand, choose our (and their) food wisely and carefully, not leave our children until they were ready to be left, and with all this we are hoping we are giving them roots and wings as Michael commonly refers to our parenting style. We love Dr. Sears and I personally have read more parenting books than most people even know exist, but I have taken this job seriously from the very beginning. We have grown and changed with each child- most especially becoming of the philosophy of everything in moderation so we do own plastic toys now, and they have eaten fast food more times than I can count.<br /><br />Back to the title of this post, the schooling for me is about being with the kids and influencing them every day. I its my goal to have them fully understand and know our values and right and wrong as we determine it. We are teaching tolerance and perspective ( a big one I think because you must understand where someone is coming from before you can decide right or wrong). It would be hard for me to squeeze all this in in only a few hours each day in between school and extra curricular activities. I fully realize that this does not work for everyone, I would like the assumption to be that my family is not judging others but instead choosing what is right for us. My kids see us reading and learning about new things each day ( we are ordering cheese making supplies at the end of the month and Michael is trying to build a hydrogen run Barbie car with the kids). They help set the goals for their school year and the methods to reach them. We spend a lot of time allowing them to make choices under our roof so that when they leave, they can make informed choices for themselves.I choose not to grade the work they do yet because the fear of failure outweighs the willingness to risk trying at this age. That being said , I have very high expectations that they must complete their work and correct their mistakes. This lifestyle for me does require that I need very little sleep, that I be involved in everyone's everything, that my free time mostly comes in ten minute spurts and that Michael and I must use our time wisely and discuss our days late in the evening after the sun has set. Hopefully what my children will remember from their schooling years is an endless amount of curiosity stemming from the large amounts of curriculum ( I collect books because I think they offer inspiration and remind us of things we have learned or want to learn) offered to them and a desire to continue learning about many of these topics well beyond a college degree. At the health talk on Monday, the conversation I had with the other homeschool mom reminded me that in fact, I don't homeschool strictly for educational purpose but in fact it is a lifestyle that Michael and I have chosen thanks to some very positive influences in our lives. Not everyone can or will make this choice, but for us it is a perfect fit.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-21440533056065862952008-09-14T21:37:00.004-04:002008-09-14T22:06:49.243-04:00Week in ReviewI have stolen Katrina's title. But anyhow, so much has happened, I will try to recap quickly. We returned from the beach and met up with reality and schooling. Micheal started our first day of school with us and it was great. Got soooo much done because he played with Keaton. We had soccer practices all week and really did get a lot done. I love our new Chemistry book and even enjoyed teaching Keelin and Bryn a little Latin. Had I remained on my original path I would be fluent, as I thought I would start when Denali began. Her third year in and I am just learning Hello. I also love our Geography songs CD from Rainbow Resource. Overall it was a very pleasant week and I am glad we are back to firm schedules. It fits my personality so much more. <br /><br />In my free (ha-ha) time, I have been reading and tonight I could not help but laugh out loud. The book I am reading is Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver and it is a true tale of how she and her family moved out to a farm to become "localvores"- people who eat within a range of their house. They set up rules and planned to live a year like this to see what influences they could have and just change their perspective. Well, it is a book I wish I could read aloud and have someone in my family find as funny as I do. Maybe it is my lack of farm knowledge or maybe it is my desire to do something similar but my fear of failure that finds the story intriguing and hilarious. But tonight it was so funny that instead of calling all of my favorite people, I will put it in my blog- this paragraph or two that made my side ache at the idea of such antics. <br /><br />Background you must have is that Michael has been Vegan at one time in our marriage and continues to be vegetarian. He and Denali both. While Bryn eats any and all meat and prefers it not to be marred with any other foods. Protein just protein for her. Lastly is Keelin who is vegetarian unless you count hamburgers, and bacon (which I do-- so she is not in my book a vegetarian). I am someone who eats anything lovingly prepared and placed in front of me because REALLY I am a mom who feeds everyone else first and rarely sits down. So with food and discussion of what is and is not meat and where things come from constantly surrounding me, all usually occurring at the dinner table, I am not a big fan of thinking of the life cycle of animals that find their way to my plate here and there. <br /><br />So on page 90, Barabra is discussing turkey. Apparently the majority of them are of the same particularly dumb breed and are too fat to have turkey sex (trying not to picture this). She writes," So how do we get more of them? Well you might ask. The sperm must be artificially extracted from live male turkeys by a person, a <em>professional turkey sperm-wrangler </em>if you will, and artificially introduced to the hens, and that is all I am going to say about that. If you think they send the toms off to the men's room with little paper cups and Playhen magazine, that's not how it goes. I will add only this: if you are the sort of parent who threatens your teenagers with a future of unsavory jobs when they ditch school, here's one more career you might want to add to the list."<br /><br />The question here in our house is- How long into the school year will I have to describe this job to one of my children in effort to get them to finish their schoolwork? And better yet, when can we move to the farm? I feel certain I can maintain being vegetarian there.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-75955411955902814582008-09-02T20:49:00.004-04:002008-09-02T21:31:18.694-04:00Turtle time<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhVhby_XuXaoLQi7X7ghqofiwuk5pLCfXsFLsnUy79HKqnCLkRJII9qVed1KNdKEyfk3KtJYcQteN5vNsA3ag4_BtsnKzcFUCOOxUHDhJv_ZJ5dBxvIolAno95eAiYXQwzUwi7xPWLGoQu/s1600-h/DSC00539.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhVhby_XuXaoLQi7X7ghqofiwuk5pLCfXsFLsnUy79HKqnCLkRJII9qVed1KNdKEyfk3KtJYcQteN5vNsA3ag4_BtsnKzcFUCOOxUHDhJv_ZJ5dBxvIolAno95eAiYXQwzUwi7xPWLGoQu/s320/DSC00539.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5241601311287744146" /></a><br /><br />Turtles in our midst!! We have been coming to Hilton Head for many years now and love the idea of sea turtles. Fueled by Nemo, we have read books, and looked at marked nests over the years but never have we seen even a track of a turtle. UNTIL Sunday, we were taking an early morning walk when the turtle patrol came by. We stopped with them at a nest several houses down. They were just checking for activity and then the nest next door to us had hatched Friday night. we were told that stragglers end up in the dunes confused by outdoor lights. They can not make it all day in the heat and end up dying because they are unable to reach the water. The nest can hatch for several days and after a few days, they do an inventory, count the eggs, and the shells. They were going to do this on Tuesday. We excitedly discussed how we would be able to at least see the eggs, and shells. On Monday morning, Michael awoke early and took Bryn with him on a scouting walk. Bryn returned out of breath and yelling, "A turtle, A turtle, hurry!!!" I woke my mom and dad insisting that they not get into clothes but run out on the beach in pajamas. Everyone ran out except me, always the mom, I did not want to wake Keaton and so I stayed behind---for all of two minutes. The moment everyone left and the house was silent, I thought,"Are you kidding me? He wakes me all night long. I can wake him for a once in a life time event." So out in our pajamas we ran. We hit the beach running and watched the turtle make a path to the ocean. He was very small and working very hard. We cheered him on. He was our Crush. When he made it to the water, he was clearly in his element. The rest of our day, while incredible since we are beach front with beautiful weather, was just not as emotional or exciting as the turtle we waited six years to see. Then we awoke this morning anxious to see the nest inventory. Keelin with her eagle eye and attention to detail found many tracks but no lost turtles in the dunes. Then the turtle patrol arrived to uncover the nest. They found three babies and helped them to the water. We had quite a following on the beach today as we invited all who walked by to join the turtle train. The volunteers gave us information and encourage people to become more knowledgeable in order to save these cuties. Loggerheads weigh between 250-400 lbs. Loggerheads are threatened. Only 1 in every 10,000 hatchlings survives to adulthood. So if you find yourself in a turtle area, PLEASE turn out your lights after dark.<br /><br /><br />We are looking forward to more naturing tomorrow as I have signed us up for a mini introduction to a new resort in exchange for free dolphin tour tickets. (There seems to be a bit of apprehension as to what the magic show and turtle feeding will entail as they are trying to sell timeshares) Only tomorrow will tell. We are starting the day off with donuts that we get to customize . What can go wrong with donuts and a free dolphin tour?????? <br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgrq6trr2037MTfwsNggaYXr5KqePHegeOo8zzpGrsoTao6d95Md58asWp7V6zHuCC5L_sFSj-_iJvjPnA06FJ4IIICVJPzUENbddaudp-GbarYOEHw5dzSS23RoTFYqTP4mJ8dgVSmB2h/s1600-h/DSC00621.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgrq6trr2037MTfwsNggaYXr5KqePHegeOo8zzpGrsoTao6d95Md58asWp7V6zHuCC5L_sFSj-_iJvjPnA06FJ4IIICVJPzUENbddaudp-GbarYOEHw5dzSS23RoTFYqTP4mJ8dgVSmB2h/s320/DSC00621.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5241593091187261746" /></a>Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-65347747062519734802008-08-27T22:15:00.004-04:002008-08-28T15:17:15.497-04:00Save the baby, screw the riceSo my parents returned from their Alaska trip and we all gathered at their house today to celebrate my dad's birthday. We arrived early afternoon and the kids were wild after so many days of rain and indoor captivity (imagine a zoo keeper's challenge of amusing elephants in a small bird cage). After the gift exchange that resembled Christmas (glad your suitcase could not carry more--MOM), the kids played nosily until dinner. Mom, Kristin and I are trying to eat the table while my dad ate with all the big kids in the family room. I commented on how it must feel just like the cruise ship dinners, surrounded by 4 children vying for food off his plate because it always tastes better that way. He did not mind sharing both his food and space thankfully but Anita did not wish to eat sitting still. Apparently she has become so adept at getting her own bottles out of the cooly bag and then serving herself while surveying the room that she feels the confinement of a chair to be a bit like prison. She is wandering throughout the house with food when I calmly suggest my sister invest in Aaron rental furniture if she continues to let food be spread to all corner's of the house. She did not giggle but my mom did. Then Keaton is done eating and Anita takes his place in the regular kitchen chair. She is attempting to climb over the table and nearly places her hand in the egg drop soup. My sister grabs her arm and is holding her off the table but in the chair while also trying to serve her white rice. Keeping in mind the hour of the day-the witching hour that is- and the lack of sleep my parents have had in their last 24 hours of travel, my mom notes with alarm that the chair is slipping out from under the baby. My sister responds very calmly that she only has two hands and can't manage it all. On a roll with a few one liners today, I begin to chant, "Save the baby, screw the rice!" My mom nearly choked which is not a new occurrence at dinner but still enough to get me started. So in the end, no babies were harmed and no need for the Heimlich but another great dinner and perfect reminder as to why we only do take-in with these crazy babies. We are anxiously awaiting Saturday morning when we all leave for the beach together. The laughs, memories, and witty comments will keep us entertained.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-61146759701197151232008-08-25T22:54:00.005-04:002008-08-25T23:38:57.063-04:00RecoveryWell, I have recovered from registration although it did take strawberry daquiris and pizza. Not my usual evening meal, but then not a ususal day. We spent the weekend slowly easing into life and wishing we could capture Saturday in a bottle. Nothing like having no expectations and not getting anything done to want a few more days like that. We are gearing up for our beach trip and this week all the appts. necessary to keep a household running.<br /><br />This is a reminder to all who think stay at home mom's don't do anything. <br />6:30 wake up<br />7:00 showered and readyish for the day<br />7:15 Two children up - hoping for a little more time to get tea made<br />8:00 All 4 up and husband long gone<br />8:15 discussion and fixing breakfast (always a vote and someone unhappy)<br />9:00 ATT guy arrives to change over tv, internet, phone<br />9:30 second loud fight of the day among girls<br />10:00 time to eat again (not me- mind you- them)<br />10:30 No phone, internet, cable- thinking we should have started school today<br />11:00 Discussion about lunch and starting to fix a hot meal<br />11:30 Still man in attic and baby who wants to climb the stairs to attic<br />11:35 resisting the urge to close stairs part way like I do for husband in attic<br />12:00 lunch- Keaton throws most of his on floor (sadly no dog to help with cleaning)<br />12:30 Dishes and more dishes due to so much eating<br />1:00 Lesson on new dvr (do love new technology) hard to hear over children demanding shows as demo is being done (side note- they can read anything to do with High School Musical)<br />1:27 ATT finally gone, but left phone number to call re: my phone<br />2:00 Call ATT spend one hour discusiing phone options and careful with words in case I was recorded (more than husband would have been)<br />2:15 Charge cell phone because of previous 1 hour use and no house phone til Wed.<br />2:30 Answer calls of hunger pangs again with "Get some fruit!!!"<br />3:00 send email to husband because he is not answering cell and can't/won't call home<br />3:30 Pretend to go to bathroom for 2 minutes of alone space.<br />3:45 Send email to soccer team <strong>I</strong> don't coach explaining no practice due to weather. Yes always a drought and then soccer season brings on the rain.<br />4:00 A load of laundry or is that three for the day???<br />4:12 Begin dinner (we are an ever eating crowd in case you ever get close by-stop in)<br />4:42 ask for the house to be picked up and the wrestling to stop<br />4:43 someone crying--I was a minute too late it appears.<br />5:00 Michael is on the way home but must do some work after everyone is in bed<br />5:15 Family meeting regarding behavior issues for the day<br />5:30 Sit down for dinner and Keaton is allowed to feed himself.<br />5:50 Michael has baby in bath, I am cleaning up after yet more food.<br />6:19 Going to watch closing cermonies on old dvr but cable has been removed so not so much (also why phone won't work until Wed but ATT lady's explanation was that they came out too early to set things up- a first I am guessing)<br />7:00 Sent all children to bed because they are over tired- we went to bed before them Saturday night only to find out they had stayed up to watch Track and Field then the Cosby show and went to bed "sometime after 2 I think Mom"<br />7:30 discussion of wireless phone change and 35 minutes on with another ATT rep who was unsure what phone we should get, what plan was right for us, and how to get our numbers from old phone to new easily but his wife had done it so he knew it was possible (Is this really customer service or just commentary)<br />8:05 Children back up for water and bathroom<br /><br /><br />None of this is that odd for my days except it should have included schooling, an interview/discussion with a writer about homeschooling, work for my sister, soccer practice for 2 hours, a trip to the library and ALL of this done while nursing <strong>constantly</strong>. That is why some of us are tired when we fall into bed at midnight. But alas only 6 more hours to repeat, because the pest service guy comes tomorrow...Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-5998622491481206162008-08-20T21:38:00.003-04:002008-08-20T22:11:02.168-04:00RegistrationI am in charge of registration for our homeschool group again tomorrow. I have chosen a job that entails only three days per year. And now that I have done it for a few years with Amy, we have a system. But it never fails to intimidate me the night before. I am trying to print a google document and it is not turning out right. As I was talking to Amy, we were recounting our favorite Registration moment. Here is how it went.<br /><br />We are set up in the doorway of the registration room so as not to allow ANYONE out without signing up for cleaning. We had a new policy this particular year and we decided to charge people to opt out of cleaning. The facility we rent requires us to clean it before the after school kids come in. We are a non profit, volunteer only organization-- a bit more organized than a co-op but still no one on the payroll. So after speaking in firm tones all morning about this new policy which was not met with happy grinning faces, but instead by a skeptical are you just milking me for more money (note previous sentence about no payroll) both Amy and I were reaching a breaking point. <br /><br />A woman approaches who has had health issues and has never signed up for cleaning. We explain the new process to her and she is incredulous. "I am going to be charged $10 for having a heart attack." We reply calmly with no of course not, but you will have to pay like everyone else to opt out. She causes a bit of a scene telling us that she can not do heavy lifting (of which none is required in this cleaning). We firmly explain the choices again, her student she is signing up for classes may clean, she may clean, or she may pay. Seems so simple until she yells, "I wish to speak to the head LEAD." Back to previous paragraph- we are an organized co-op. We do have a board and a president, but this was a combination of registration decisions with board decisions and then same people always doing everything and that must change decision. So I jump out of my chair and run to several board members leaving the woman telling everyone how we were charging her for her health issues and Amy flabbergasted because really who is the head LEAD?? I ask if there is a head LEAD and when I get the skeptical look I had already delivered to the woman, they reply with YOU are the head LEAD. Not a title I relished at the moment, but being assured they "had my back" which did no more to comfort me than being with my mom in a dark alley, I return to the table where all the people in line behind this woman are anxious to see if she gets out of this policy. I quietly inform her that in fact these are the only choices and she is welcome to step aside and decide which one is best for her, but no registration will be complete without a commitment of some sort. I then sit back in my seat and wonder why we don't make these mornings, Margarita Madness. The line quiets and the next woman sheepishly looks at Amy and hands over all her paperwork in hopes that we do not find fault with any of it I am sure. Keeping in mind that Amy and I are not fond of any confrontation and have spent our entire lives in avoidance of such issues. <br /><br /><br />It is comical to find that WE have found our calling in not letting anyone out of the building without the proper paperwork filled out. We take great pride in this fact and tomorrow evening we will recount how we did not let anyone slip by and we have the documentation to prove all the checks and cash match our numbers. I will arrive with coffee and depending on Amy's dream tonight and if it seems like a premonition of our morning to come, those coffees might just need to be spiked. Beware the two women bearing pens and clipboards tomorrow. Thanks to Lucy for taking the piranha role for Cleaning duties. :)Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-24635797037830100692008-08-19T20:19:00.002-04:002008-08-19T21:02:37.907-04:00Our weekendWe had an up and down weekend. Saturday we spent the day in Fayetteville, Ga. Denali had two games and we returned in the early evening. We got settled in and then our dog of 15+ years started having what we now know was seizures. He was acting really odd and then started trotting through the backyard as though he did not have hip trouble. It was so unusual that I called a friend who has vet experience. She thought it might be a seizure and we sent the kids to bed. By midnight, He had several more and Michael was headed to the emergency clinic. Unfortunately, it closed beginning August 1 as an all night clinic and would not re open until 8 AM. Michael spent all night up with the dog, which reminded me of why he chooses to be veteran. His love for animals and especially if they are in pain or in trouble actually causes him to become undone. By 7 AM he was ready to take the dog. Tibbis died at 8:15 at the clinic and that is how the kids day began. We had to pack up and grab breakfast on the road for an 11:30 game one hour away. We discussed all our options and decided to bury Tibbis with my parents dog in their yard. We returned from the game and met my sister and family at the house. After digging the hole, Michael let the kids help place the box in the ground. We have kept Keelin and Keaton's placentas all this time waiting for the perfect time or place to bury them. It seemed fitting that these baby homes could help guard our special family member. The kids were given a good experience in the circle of life and death this way. I feel incredibly blessed that our family experiences about death have been as perfect as possible with bodies being old and giving out. Our good news for the weekend was in additon to spending A LOT of time together, Denali had a great weekend of soccer continually improving and eventually scoring the only goal for her team, but most improtantly, she gave it her all. Our rollercoaster ride seems to be over and we are settling in without a pet. He will be missed greatly and our memories will be fond.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-80506924602876291382008-08-14T21:48:00.002-04:002008-08-14T22:08:52.156-04:00Thursday ThirteenOur favorite Olympic Sports<br /><br /><br />1. Gymnastics- I once was gymnast and can just begin to appreciate the hard work.<br />2. Swimming- Not a sport our family is into but love watching it.<br />3. Soccer- both women and men. <br />4. Beach Volleyball- Michael wishes to make a living at this.<br />5. Fencing- A local girl is in this event<br />6. Water polo- The stamina in treading water amazes me.<br />7. Canoe- this does not look like fun but incredibly difficult<br />8. Synchronized Diving- this means you must spend too much time with one person :)<br />9. Diving- also amazing and way to daredevil for me.<br />10. Cycling/ Road- Having ridden with kids, too close for my comfort.<br />11. Volleyball- also fun to see.<br />12. Weightlifting -an incredible story about a woman who homebirthed too.<br />13. Rowing- we even have a rower in our gym but no need to work that hard right?Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-3431428631695609552008-08-13T13:46:00.002-04:002008-08-13T13:51:41.258-04:00Wordless Wednesday<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsZsuYkzUcAzdwH_6NHBOihyphenhyphenFOw54D-1VUihUDrHFKgwjIz-FXVW1g_DR-E0I8P1p6lQsyW8N2703fydJAIaJVTkUR3yjdi9DDKFnF0fSJz9CwSBGSCpromhbfqI7cJjLOW2n6gOeJkZVO/s1600-h/August+2008++beginning+015.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsZsuYkzUcAzdwH_6NHBOihyphenhyphenFOw54D-1VUihUDrHFKgwjIz-FXVW1g_DR-E0I8P1p6lQsyW8N2703fydJAIaJVTkUR3yjdi9DDKFnF0fSJz9CwSBGSCpromhbfqI7cJjLOW2n6gOeJkZVO/s320/August+2008++beginning+015.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5234061412362330162" /></a><br />Ok two words- Elton John????Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-6970329904467186162008-08-10T22:47:00.002-04:002008-08-10T23:01:09.900-04:00SundayI am typing at this late hour because I don't have to get up tomorrow morning. Why? Because we are not starting our "real" school year yet. We have worked all summer a little each day but will begin our new year after we return from the beach in September. I have actually planned for the first 6 weeks already though and I am so excited. I think it is going to be a great year, especially now that Keaton can occasionally entertain himself. He was so excited at Stacy and Adele's house today because it was his first experiencen with kittens. He continually called them dog dog, which is his name for our dog. In his world, all four legged creatures must be dogs. Well also because their cats weigh more than our dog. We spent along morning cleaning up the backyard and the kids whining that they did not like outside work. Obviously neither do Michael or I or we would not be cutting bushes down to 8ft off the ground with a chainsaw. It was a very long time coming, this trimming and required many trips to the front yard dragging trees the size of Michael. The yard is not quite finished but we decided to call it a day at noon. I went to the grocery store and listened to my ipod while shopping. Felt a little young but most importantly, I did not have my kids with me so I did not wish to hear anyone. It was sooooo fun. We are catching up on Olympics tonight and then plan a playdate tomorrow. It was a fun weekend and a good reminder to our kids that someone must do some dirty work and none of us is above it. Hope this lesson continues to sink in. Michael and I were discussing the selfishness of kids, inherent, and the reminder for us that as the parents we must demonstrate unselfish behavior for them to model. I am going to focus on looking for the lack of selfishness in our kids for the next few weeks. When you are looking for something, it is usually easier to find. I look forward to seeing how they can demonstrate it.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-24043964853342192032008-08-07T19:39:00.004-04:002008-08-07T20:17:17.731-04:00New Thursday ThirteenOk, it has been a week since I posted so catching up. We spent 4 hours each adult in the font yard this weekend because we let it go so long that we could not even afford illegal help to get it done. I have been trying to learn to knit. Hobbies in our house MUST be productive so I feel that I must make a pair of socks before winter. It is supposed to be relaxing but as of yet it is causing me great anxiety that I can not master what small children have been able to do. We have spent a great deal of time focusing on soccer. Our season begins next weekend as we travel to Fayetteville for a tournament. But last but not least, what has absorbed most of my time is that we had Keaton's four front teeth removed today due to decay. We struggle with teeth like some families struggle with allergies. As it has been researched and explained to me: we as a family have a bacteria that feeds and spreads and we share food, my kids teeth very early, and I insist on nursing on demand. This combination apparently does not allow the teeth to develop properly. We had the option to have fake teeth put in but decided against it. On a side note, if in Atlanta, we know a GREAT dentist who can do partial sedation in the office and she was wonderful. Thanks Dr. Susan Lee. Now to my thirteen.<br /><br />Things I am Grateful for Daily:<br />1. My husband who walked the floors last night with me because Keaton could not nurse after midnight.<br />2. My other children who stepped up to the plate and handled themselves this afternoon so we could nap.<br />3. My sister who amazingly was able to stay with Keaton and be his familiar face. I DO NOT do medical well at all.<br />4. My parents who always help even when it means rearranging and dropping anything in their lives. My dad took the girls to breakfast, my mom kept me company in the waiting room.<br />5. Our friends who checked up on us, prayed for us and even brought me chocolate (thanks Mel-although not so much left to offer you).<br />6. Our insurance which allowed this procedure to be an option that did not involve financial sacrifice for a year or so.<br />7. Our city, which gives us many options to great health care.<br />8. Our health, which we forget to be grateful for until we are not.<br />9. Living here in the US which I have been reminded often lately is a privilege despite all that people believe. Just leave the country and you will discover how lucky we are.<br />10. The many nutritious options for food that we have evey single day.<br />11. The beautiful, safe, loving home I live in.<br />12. Our extended family who loves and supports us even though they are not local.<br />13. And last but not least, the opportunities that come each day to help us grow and learn to love more.Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932974000253522763.post-24342221860760394262008-07-31T20:07:00.002-04:002008-07-31T20:33:20.886-04:00Thursday ThirteenThirteen reasons I should not hold a Corporate Job<br /><br />1.I could not sit still anymore (developed ADD from having kids)<br />2.I could not multi task at home while at an office.<br />3.I could not eat whenever I want.<br />4.I could not control my hours.<br />5.I could not control my Ac/heat.<br />6.I could not wear pajamas when I don't fel like getiing dressed (you be amazed at how professional I can sound in my pajamas).<br />7.I could not go on vacation when I decide I need a day off.<br />8.I could not continue to nurse on demand. <br />9.I could not homeschool the kids (except on take your children to work day).<br />10.I could not deal with the NON-OCD people in any office.<br />11.I could not ever complete the paper work in order to receive insurance and re- evaluate it every other month,<br />12.I could not disturb all the senior shoppers at Kroger on Wednedays by taking all 4 children with me.<br />13. I am WAY too producitve to work under someone else ( my 40 hrs is like other people's 80)Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15231162417145673544noreply@blogger.com1